Notes From Home- Choosing an Unhurried Life
Settling into rhythms, date dinners at home, chocolate granola, and a reminder to slow down
Welcome back to another Notes From Home—a place where I share honestly about our life as a homeschooling family of seven, trying to live intentionally and simply in this modern world. Thanks for being here!
After easing back into some of our usual, feel-good routines last week, I felt a sense of settling in—but in a way that reminded me to take this season slowly.
Throughout the week, I kept coming back to a quiet theme– an invitation to embrace an unhurried pace of life. In my interactions with my children, the items on my to-do list, and even what I say “yes” to outside the home, it all seemed to point in the same direction—toward living more slowly, more deliberately, and with greater purpose.
1. In Our Homeschool- Working Through Novels
One of the simplest changes we’ve made lately has also been one of our favorites.
I’ve never quite found a language arts curriculum that fully captured what I wanted—it always felt like something was missing. What I really wanted was for my kids to experience good books.
So in this slower season of pregnancy and now with a newborn, we started something new in our mornings. We choose a great book together—sometimes a classic, other times a Newbery winner, and take turns reading aloud as we snuggle together on the couch.
As we read, I highlight vocabulary words, we pause to talk through deeper questions, and the kids work on both fluency and a short written response in their journals.
It’s simple, but it’s become the part of our school day we all look forward to most.
And maybe more importantly, it’s helping them develop a taste for what good literature actually is—something deeper than the quick, graphic novels that they’re naturally drawn to.
Slowing down enough to sit with a book together has been worth it.
2. An Intentional Moment- Date Dinners at Home
In this season of life, getting out for regular date nights isn’t always realistic, so we’ve started doing something that has worked surprisingly well—weekly date dinners at home.
Gleaning this tradition from reading M is for Mama, on Thursday nights, we keep things simple and predictable. We start about an hour before the kids’ usual bedtime, make them a fun, kid-friendly dinner, and let them have some movie time downstairs while we sit down together upstairs.
Lately, it’s been meals like carne asada with homemade tortillas or steak with sweet potatoes and a Caesar salad. Nothing elaborate—just uninterrupted conversation (a rare commodity the other days of the week!).
We usually come with a few topics we want to talk about, and it’s become a meaningful way to invest in our marriage without needing to leave the house or spend a lot on a nice restaurant.
It’s a small rhythm, but one that reminds me that the best type of connection is one that’s meaningfully thought about– and sometimes that means putting it on the calendar before life absorbs all the margin or energy.
3. Rhythms at Home- Deep Dive Decluttering
Lately, I’ve felt the pull to declutter more deeply.
With a family of seven in a smaller home, it doesn’t take much for things to start feeling full. Instead of trying to tackle everything at once, I’ve been taking a slower, more manageable approach.
I start with the easy wins, like the bathroom, linen closet, the car, our junk drawer. They’re smaller spaces that can be completed in 30 minutes or less, which is essential in this busy season of life.
These shorter decluttering sessions build momentum and make the bigger areas of the home feel less overwhelming when I get to them.
Decluttering a whole home can feel like a lot, but when you start slowly and work in one space, piece by piece, that feels more sustainable than trying to do it all at once.
4. Something I’m Loving- Chocolate Granola
Something you can always find in our kitchen is homemade granola.
We already love Greek yogurt and granola, but over the past few months I’ve been experimenting with making different varieties. This version has quickly become a favorite—my husband likes to call it a “healthy version of Cocoa Pebbles”.
It’s simple, made with good, whole ingredients, and one of those small things that makes everyday routines feel just a little more enjoyable.
I’ll include the recipe below if you want to try it!
4 cups rolled oats
1 cup finely chopped nuts (I use pecans)
1/2 cup coconut flakes
1/2 tsp salt
1/2 cup cocoa powder
1/4 cup maple syrup
1/4 cup honey
1/2 cup olive oil
1 tsp vanilla
1 cup chocolate chips
In a large bowl, combine oats, nuts, coconut, salt, and cocoa powder. Mix well. In a separate bowl, combine the maple syrup, honey, oil, and vanilla— then add to dry ingredients. Stir until every oat is coated.
On a large rimmed baking sheet lined with parchment paper, spread granola in a single layer, pressing down with a spatula. Bake at 325 degrees for 10 minutes. Then, stir granola and press down again. Bake for another 10 minutes. Finally, sprinkle chocolate chips all over the top of the granola and bake for 5 minutes to melt the chocolate.
After removing from the oven, use a spatula to spread the melted chocolate chips over the granola (this makes the best chocolatey clusters!).
5. One Thought to Keep
The other day at the library, I was reminded of something I haven’t been able to let go of.
The entrance was under construction, and everything had narrowed to a small walkway. My toddler was taking his time—wandering, pausing, moving at his own pace, while a few people waited behind us.
I gently urged him along, feeling that familiar pressure to hurry, and politely apologized to the woman behind us.
She smiled and said, “Oh, I’m not in a hurry. I’m never in a hurry anymore—but it took me a long time to get there.”
I was shocked to hear someone actually say that. And it’s stayed with me ever since.
Because if I’m honest, much of my life is lived in a quiet state of rushing, like moving kids along, getting everyone out the door on time, trying to fit everything into small pockets of the limited time I have.
But what would it look like to choose something different?
To not be in a hurry?
To slow down in my interactions with my children, in our school mornings, in the way I move through the day?
I don’t have a perfect answer yet—but it’s a question I’m carrying with me this week and pondering often.
As always, thank you so much for being here and following along! I’m so grateful for so many of you who have sent messages, left thoughtful comments, and connected personally about motherhood and life.
Stay tuned for another Notes From Home post next week!